Many wives who find that their husbands are still actively cheating often list "let him stop" as the most important goal. This is the case even if the wife does not know if she wants to save her marriage. Few people will find cheating, then look at another way or let cheating continue. Most people want to stop cheating immediately - even if the future of marriage is not clear. Therefore, the wife or the faithful spouse may continue to crusade and demand that the event be over. When this happens, the wife may feel a small part of the success - until she starts thinking too much - and worry that cheating may suddenly start again, especially considering the uncertainty of her marriage.
She might say: "For two weeks, I threatened my husband. If he doesn't end his hair immediately, I won't let him see his child. There is no time to forgive. I suspect he is begging for time, Because he is trying to postpone because he thinks he has a real feeling about this bimbo - this is ridiculous. He told me last weekend that he has broken it. I won't interact with him so much, so it doesn't look like me. It was his behavior. Water and he texted in the kitchen. He said it was the text of his college son. But his face looked very guilty. Now I am worried because I gave him a cold shoulder, he is or will Start this again. Someone often stops this, just start over?"
This is really hard to answer. You may already know this, but if you research this topic, you can find information that 22% of people can repeat cheating or up to 55%. Statistics seem to vary from topic to topic. But, based on your belief, you can see everywhere from a quarter to a quarter. Now, these statistics don't tell us if this person is cheating again with the original event partner. They only tell us if he cheats more than once. That's why I noticed that the same person cheated more than once in the lower range of this size, but I am not sure.
As a person who deals with cheating, I fully understand why you want this information and why you want to know the possibility of cheating again. But I don't think you need to make a decision about marriage based on this information. Many wives feel pressure to restore marriage too early because they worry that if they don't, their spouse will only return to another person because it's easy. I understand why this is tempting, but the impulse of this approach is not ideal. You didn't give yourself enough time to observe, wait and deal with what is happening. Frankly, if your husband returns to another woman, this will give you a lot of information about his motivation and his commitment to your marriage - at least at that moment. Jumping back to the event [or never stopping it] will tell you a lot about his thinking process. If he can't end some well-deserved indifference, then no matter what you do or how much you walk on the eggshell, I'm not sure if he will take any different action. A man who seriously saves his marriage will end this matter, no matter what, because this is the right thing. However, not everyone has made this decision immediately. Some people heard it in the drama of this matter, but only returned to reality after the reality disappeared.
There is no real guarantee in life or marriage. It is impossible to make your spouse never cheat. In my experience, the best thing you can do is to decide that you want to save your marriage and then tirelessly try to do it. Finally, you want a better marriage than you started, because it will give you the confidence to believe in your marriage again. But these things won't happen until you figure out what your spouse is trying to achieve through extramarital affairs, and then find a way to stop the process from happening again.
However, this is usually determined in a timely manner. You have no reason to be eager for success because you are afraid of cheating again. This does not mean that you should not pay close attention to him and get every important piece of information you can get. But if he takes this seriously, he won't start this again. Because this is common sense, doing so means that you may not give it a second chance.
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