For all of us, especially for public speakers, communication is really more than just language.
If you think this is not true, then think back, remember that you have experienced a bad conversation. I am willing to bet that at some stage, the words used match the emotional meaning of one or two of your attached people. This is often the root cause of interpersonal problems.
For our purposes, consent essentially means things match. Humans like to be consistent in our lives, and we are usually very suitable for seeking consistency in interpersonal relationships with others.
Humans have been leaking information. We are always communicating.
We are unable to communicate. Even our silence is a powerful form of communication.
Therefore, in order to be effective, in face-to-face communication, you must ensure that your emotions, body, voice and facial expressions match your language to help you communicate your information in the best possible way. The matching of emotional intent, physiology, and speech with the words used is called consistent communication.
Is this easy? It depends on you and the context. This is easy in some cases and difficult in other situations. This is life. Consistent communication naturally occurs when we are in the most relaxed and natural state. When we don't focus on it and just let it go, our body will follow our words. If we talk about something that is very uncomfortable or dishonest, then consistency will be difficult. You need to think and apply to improve or acquire any skills. Practice is more consistent and will pay dividends for a long time.
It's an attractive habit to analyze your past consistent conversations and build them into your current interactions.
Of course, there is still no guarantee that you will succeed or be effective. In any interpersonal relationship, there will always be another unique person involved. This is why communication is so exciting and frightening.
Please note that you will always convey certain information - it may not be what you want.
If you are not exactly the same, then the chances of a message failing or misunderstanding are much greater, so pay attention to how you communicate and the words you use. When the two aspects are well combined, you will create a very efficient message.
I hope that you communicate completely and consistently.
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